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Sex advice by Agony Allan – She isn’t ready, but I am!

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Hey Allan,

I’m 16 and my gal is almost 17. She isn’t ready for any sex and I want it desperately. How do I kinda seduce her into it?? We have kissed before and I have even felt her entire body with my hands… unfortunately we will use a condom :-(.

How do I start stripping her, like how do I begin the sex and how can I last long in bed such that she enjoys it…

She’s a virgin so what do I do about the hymen bleed and all???



Thanks for the message, it’s simple as this… and this may sound boring but… Fuck it!

If she isn’t ready, then you simply shouldn’t be pushing her! She shouldn’t feel pressured to loose her virginity. So either wait, or move on and find someone else. In answer to the second part of the question, when she is ready… or if you find someone else, you should just take it easy! Not much will be expected for your first time, and its going to be a bit painful for her, but I really wouldn’t worry about how to last long in bed at this stage. Getting a girl to bed should be your goal! But one that wants sex!

As for hymens bleeding, neither of you are going to care about that, there is something special about the first time, so I doubt it will even factor in! Dude, chill out, wait for her or find someone else, and stop planning it so much! Just go with the flow, you can start putting more effort in once you’ve had practice!

Your thoughts?

Allan Lake
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    Topper Harley

    27 Aug 2010 at 8:53 am

    Don’t be that dissapointed about the condom, it’s for the good of you both! Besides, you will be so excited the first time, you won’t even notice it. Just practice a little before to get the thing on quickly.

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    27 Aug 2010 at 12:58 am

    pressuring a girl into having sex will always backfire in the end no matter how it plays out. Pressuring a virgin is even worse because your forcing her to make two decisions – losing her virginity, and having sex with you.

    Seriously, wait for her without pressuring her, or simply move on and find a girl who is willing to have sex without forcefulness on your end.

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