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Sex advice by Agony Allan – Is she faking it?

Agony Allan on the RedTube BlogThis a question I get given a lot, so today I will answer:

Of course every guy wants to pleasure who he’s fucking. I mean, duhh! But when can you ACTUALLY tell that shes not faking? How can you be sure when shes liking what shes getting?

That’s a good question, and the real truth is that you can’t! Some girls are really quiet, so that makes you worry that you are not doing a good job… some girls are too loud, so you think they are over compensating. I think guys just worry about pleasing their women far too much! Trust me, girls don’t give it as much thought! If your girl doesn’t fucking leave you after your first few shags, then the chances are, you are probably doing an okay job!

In all seriousness, I am right! In these situations, you are usually worrying about nothing… but there is not harm in actually just asking her what she likes, what you could do more of! My wife never moans at me for how I am in bed, but every now and then I bother to ask ‘what turns you on?’.

The art to pleasing your women is to make her cum first, whether it be licking, fingering… whatever! Then after she is sorted, and your mind is at rest, you can sort yourself out! Remember, women don’t cum during sex all the time, so don’t give yourself too much of a hard time! No pun intended!

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    Cindy Gallop

    27 Aug 2010 at 7:16 pm

    Also guys – just ask her 🙂

    If you make it really clear that you want her to cum (but not so clear that you make her feel pressured about it in which case she will feel more pressured into faking it to keep you happy :)), that you welcome her talking openly and honestly about what is most likely to make her cum, and that you are really happy to spend time exploring and trying stuff all of which you stress you will be enjoying regardless, to see what is most effective at making her cum – then with any luck she probably will 🙂

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    27 Aug 2010 at 12:18 am

    Girls do vary, and there is no one sure way to tell if a girl is faking pleasure or not. But I’ve learned a few simple things that are a dead giveaway if you are looking for them.

    Heart rate: in the heat of sex, anyone who is enjoying themselves will have a faster pulse, anyone who’s faking will likely have a normal heart rate.

    Blushing: this varies by person, but – the rush of blood to the body, thanks to the heart rate increasing, may cause some portions of the skin to turn a little red. Rose cheeks or chest are among some body parts that can change a little in color. Even touching these parts and feeling that they are warmer than other parts of the body will clue you in if you don’t see the red.

    Attention span: This is plainly obvious and should go without saying, but – is the person your attempting to please even into it? while doing it do you notice the person looking around the room, trying to have an actual conversation, finding something else to do WHILE having sex? If you know the person well enough to know that he/she is bored and he/she is showing those traits during sex, then you need to draw to the conclusion he/she is not getting pleasured.

    sometimes, just asking can go a long ways. Even ask the girl to have you watch while you notice what she does to herself, and how her and her body reacts to her touch. If she is duplicating those same reactions while you are pleasing her, then your doing well.

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