Christmas is only a day or so away and we are getting well into the festive season here on the blog! Even your Agony Allan questions have a Christmas theme to them! Here is today’s email looking for some sex tips and advice:
Merry Christmas Allan! I’ve been with this girl for 6 months now and we are about to spend our first Christmas together. She has asked me to buy her a ‘sexy gift’ for Christmas and I am wondering if buying her a sex toy is a good idea or not?
I don’t want to become second place to a dildo or buy her something that is better in bed than me! Your sex advice would be great!
Thanks for your email! A lot of guys (me included) feel threatened by sex toys… And it wasn’t until I started working at RedTube that I finally got over it. In my head I would always think that my wife was having so much more fun with the dildo than me, I even refused to use it on her. That didn’t help because I would just end up sat there doing nothing.
So what did I do to over come this? I saw girls and guys using toys on each other here on RedTube, so I went out and brought her a vibrator that I chose… not one that she got herself… Something that I personnally picked out and now I feel totally comfortable with it! What made me feel better was when she said ‘It’s not the same unless you are controlling it’, so yeah, the sex toy is now just a tool in our love making! So you should go out and buy her something that you like and you can use on her.
Just don’t wrap it up and forget which present it is, giving your mum a dildo on christmas day is not cool!
I am here right over christmas with sex tips and sex advice for you, so just email me via my contact form!
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