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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – I need more confidence!

Agony Allan on the RedTube BlogToday’s Agony Allan email is about getting your confidence back after breaking up with someone.

Hi Allan,

I’m new to this blog. I’ve read some of your advice posts and I’ve decided to ask for some help.

The problem is, after breaking with my gf I’ve kinda lost self confidence. I’m only 22 but it bothers me a lot. There’s a girl I’m keen on so I was wondering if you can suggest anything to regain self confidence, maybe some advice on how to become more attractive to girls. Any suggestions on how to make girl “want” me would be awesome.

Thanks for your time.

You really shouldn’t be worried about trying to change yourself so girls start to like you, that’s not the problem. The issue we are dealing with here is you have lost confidence in yourself and ability to attract girls because you have been burnt by your ex girlfriend.

If buying some new clothes, smelling nice and having a make over gets your confidence back, then do it. We have all been there, my advice would be put yourself out into the market again. Start to flirt with girls whether online or in person, pretend to yourself that you are confident… look yourself in the mirror and and say ‘I’ve pulled girls before, nothings changed, I can do the same again’. Even if it’s an act, see it through. The more you say it, the more you start to believe it and it becomes true.

It’s all in your head, so by following my simple steps you will be back in the game within no time! Got a question or need sex tips or sex advice? Email me via my contact form.

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog host!

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