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I really hope you can help me with this, it is something that has been tormenting me for quite some time.
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and I love her more than I’ve ever loved anyone in the past. Her and I have a great sex life and I wouldn’t change anything in our relationship except one thing.
She has had sexual relations with 3 guys before me, whereas I was a virgin up until I met her. This is something that eats away at me constantly and only seems to get worse with time. I really don’t know what to do because I feel almost as if I have missed out on something extremely important. Especially being the “first one” for someone.
I feel like I’ll always wonder what it would be like to reach that level of intimacy with someone else. These thoughts all seem very self destructive to me and I would do anything to be able to get passed this… PLEASE HELP!
Hi and thanks for your email. To me, the thought of taking someones virginity or losing my virginity isn’t something I would want to do again… Having sex for the first time with a virgin chick isn’t as good as it sounds, this is just my opinion… but I personally don’t think you have missed out by not popping a woman’s cherry. It’s usually pretty awkward the first time, painful for her and very quick for you.
You have to ask yourself the question, what have you really missed out on by not taking someones virginity… I think if you give it some consideration, you haven’t missed out on anything! The level of intimacy that you speak of comes more when you are both at one together and usually both have some practice.
Stop thinking about what you might have missed out on and concentrate on what you have got now… I would trade a virgin in for a chick with experience any day!
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