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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – Anxiety is stopping me from having sex!

Sex Advice by Agony Allan – Anxiety is stopping me from having sex!

Allan Lake at the AVN ExpoSex advice and Sex tips are my bag! Here is another email from one of you guys asking for help:

Hi Allan. Just found your advice page for the first time, and I’m diggin it. My problem is kinda strange. I don’t want to be conceited, but….. I’m a very attractive 20 year old guy. I hate it. I have problems with anxiety, and sexual tension makes it much worse.

Because of the way I look, I find myself experiencing sexual tension with almost every girl I meet. I don’t get many chances to ignore the tension and just feel uncomfortable around girls. I’m also a virgin. I don’t know if losing the v-card is the problem, or if it’s more complicated than that. (Also, size is definitely not the problem..)

I don’t know how to relax when a girl eyes me down. It’s come to the point where I’ve given up on trying to have sex. How can a lucky guy like me feel so unlucky. Once a girl is interested, I find myself unable to return that interest because anxiety takes hold. Any advice?

Okay, I can imagine a lot of people reading this email might say ‘Fuck off you egoistical bastard’… But that’s not me. I do find it strange that you have anxiety issue but you also hold yourself in such high regard. You could have written the same email to me, but left the ‘I’m so good looking’ part out because it really has no relevance to your problem…. OR DOES IT??

I actually think that the ego you hold is perhaps your problem with the ladies. You are putting yourself on a peddle stool, you are excepting a lot because you think you are giving a lot and the pressure of all of this is giving you anxiety and holding you back… Forget what you look like, I don’t care if you are Brad Pitt… there is no use being Brad Pitt if you can’t fuck Angelina! You need to relax! You get a lot of attention from girls, ignore it for a bit… stop putting so much pressure on yourself and I guarantee you that after you stop thinking about pulling a chick, it will just happen.

When you want something so much, you build it up into a major thing… you have less chance of it happening, you need to want it… release it and just relax as it will happen!

My final words, get that ego in check… a woman doesn’t want to hear about how good looking you are, she wants to hear how great she looks!

Allan Lake
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    nickjonas

    24 Aug 2012 at 4:50 am

    Very nice information….

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    robertmejiayah

    27 May 2012 at 7:31 am

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    sid

    09 Oct 2011 at 7:09 pm

    i am 23 years old male from pakistan i am crazy for sex and i am too hot i used to sit naked in room playing with cock. i did sex with many girsl but they didnt satisfied me even aged ladies didnt make me relax.the only thing which relax me is my mama. i watch her pics on laptop and stroke with hands and thn get relax. i do it 2,3 times daily watching her pics. i really want to do with her but i am afraid that how i will do coz she is mama she vont allow me nor i can force her 4 that i used to see her from window while she taking bath and its getting difficut 4 me to control.. plz help me

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