Do you have a question about sex that you would really like some advice on? Perhaps you really need some sex tips? Well, I have been around a bit… I have made every mistake there is to make and somehow picked up a few tips on the way. For sex tips or sex advice about anything, just email me via my contact form. Here is today’s email:
I really hate using condoms! They don’t feel good… my dick doesn’t feel as good with one on during sex but my girlfriend insists. We have been seeing each other for 9 months, but still we use condoms! In my other long relationships, the woman has moved to the pill after a few months but my current girlfriend tells me that she doesn’t trust it. What can I do to get myself out of this rubber hell??
Thanks for the email. Yeah, condoms are handy and sex can still feel pretty fucking good when you have one on… but there comes a time when bareback comes begging. There is no doubt that bareback feels better but you clearly have to use some sort of protection, otherwise you are just stupid.
So she won’t take the pill because she doesn’t trust it? The contraception pill works everyday for millions of chicks around the world and like any contraception, there are risks… but hey, a condom could split. My wife uses the pill and we have never experienced a problem.
There are many other options, the coil… the implant… all of these are great ways to stop getting pregnant and it only takes five minutes with a doctor to work out which one is best for you both. I think you should talk to her, go into the doctors with her and work on a solution together. She needs to know that there are risks to everything in life, but it’s all about going for the things with the least chance of going wrong!
I’m sure I don’t need to mention this, but obviously remember that pills, coils and implants will stop her getting pregnant but condoms also stop STD’s from being transmitted… anyone that moves from condoms to another form of contracption needs to take this into account!
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