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Today’s Agony Allan email is about getting your confidence back after breaking up with someone.

Hi Allan,

I’m new to this blog. I’ve read some of your advice posts and I’ve decided to ask for some help.

The problem is, after breaking with my gf I’ve kinda lost self confidence. I’m only 22 but it bothers me a lot. There’s a girl I’m keen on so I was wondering if you can suggest anything to regain self confidence, maybe some advice on how to become more attractive to girls. Any suggestions on how to make girl “want” me would be awesome.

Thanks for your time.

You really shouldn’t be worried about trying to change yourself so girls start to like you, that’s not the problem. The issue we are dealing with here is you have lost confidence in yourself and ability to attract girls because you have been burnt by your ex girlfriend.

If buying some new clothes, smelling nice and having a make over gets your confidence back, then do it. We have all been there, my advice would be put yourself out into the market again. Start to flirt with girls whether online or in person, pretend to yourself that you are confident… look yourself in the mirror and and say ‘I’ve pulled girls before, nothings changed, I can do the same again’. Even if it’s an act, see it through. The more you say it, the more you start to believe it and it becomes true.

It’s all in your head, so by following my simple steps you will be back in the game within no time! Got a question or need sex tips or sex advice? Email me via my contact form.

Allan Lake
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Sex Advice and Sex Tips are always on hand from your friend Agony Allan, if you want to ask a question just email via my contact form. This is today’s email:

I need help.. My gf and I have been wanting to do it for a while, but every time I try to enter her, she complains that’s it’s too tight and it hurts. What can I do about this? Appreciate the help. Thanx.

I’m not sure if she is a virgin or not, but if she is young and new to sex it’s very normal for the girl to be tight. If she has never had a dick up there before, or you are bigger than a previous guy… it is probably going to hurt.

The only real advice for this type of question is that you use lube, and you should use lots of it. When you get inside her, go really slow so it hurts less. Also, after a few times she will get more ‘loose’ down there so this won’t last forever!
And make her feel comfortable so she can really relax and get into it.

Allan Lake
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Today’s email asking Agony Allan for sex advice is about masturbation.

Hi Allan,

I have a problem regarding masturbation. My boyfriend wanted to see me masturbating and squirting. I can do both, but when he’s watching I get self conscious, even when he says that he will turn around and to call him if i’m cuming.

Can you give me some advice what to do? How can I relax when masturbating and squirting in front of my boyfriend?

Thanks for the message, I totally understand that you feel self conscious when playing with yourself in-front of your boyfriend. We usally masturbate alone so when someone else is watching, things like squirting are not easy! I have a suggestion for you… Why don’t you start of with small steps… Film yourself squirting and send it to him whilst you are not around each other!

Ask him to do the same! Both of you share videos, only with each other… and then once you realised that he’s already seen you cum… you will feel less self conscious and more like doing it for real in-front of him! I hope my sex advice and sex tips work out for you!

If you would like any sex advice, email me via my contact form!

Allan Lake
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Let’s do another Agony Allan, this is today’s email:

Hi Allan,

Please help me. I’m going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I was wondering what is the best contraceptive method to use? I was thinking about using the pills but are they really safe?

Congratulations for being such a great advisor, hope you can help me.

Best Regards
Candy

Hi Candy, thanks for the message. It is a great question that you ask today and well done for actually taking an interest in safe sex! I may sound like a bore, but it’s so important that you protect yourself and your partner.

My advice would be to start the contraception pill by visiting your doctor, but for the first few months I would also use condoms at the same time and I will explain why!

The pill works like this, it fools your body into thinking that you are already pregnant so then you cannot conceive, but it’s really important to note that taking the pill will not stop you from catching sexually transmitted infections and diseases. I don’t care how long you’ve been with your man, both of you should go to your local clinic and get checked out before he takes the rubber off.

Once you’ve done that and you’ve also been taking the pill for a while, you are good to leave the condoms at the door and go bareback!

Sex advice and sex tips are always on hand, just email me via my contact form. Click on Allan Lake.

Allan Lake
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Time for another piece of sex advice from Agony Allan! If you need sex tips or sex advice from me, email via my contact form! This is todays email:

Hi Allan, I have a question that goes through my mind every time I have sex with my girlfriend…

HOW DO I MAKE MY GIRL SQUIRT!!??

I’ve been told that there are some things you can do, but I never heard exactly what… It’s possible as far as I know… that every girl can squirt?

Please help me out here and make my day

I don’t think every girl can squirt but I can tell you that a lot can. I somehow have the magical touch with squirting, so here are some tips that I have picked up.

Don’t try to make her squirt straight away, take your time! You want to build up massive amounts of anticipation. Tease her!! Once she’s warmed up, enter her with one finger and feel all the way around the walls of her pussy watching how she reacts to each move you make.

Now the smooth talking comes in, tell her how great she feels and that she is making you want to cum just by touching her. Then begin to touch her G spot using a ‘come here’ motion. Vary it up between long and short strokes. The G Spot will begin to swell and balloon out as she gets closer and closer to cuming.

She will begin to feel a sensation similar to her needing to piss. It isn’t piss though, it’s something much nicer! Encourage her to let it go! Some girls can squirt a lot of cum, others need a bit of practice, but the whole basis of making someone squirt relies on you teasing and building up to it! Slow and steady wins the race!

If you need a more visual aid, check our instructional video How to give women squirting orgasms!

Allan Lake
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