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What times is it? Well about 8 am in the UK… but the correct answer is Agony Allan time! Today’s sex tips are about dating and this is the email I received:

Dear Allan,

I’m 30 and I haven’t had a boyfriend for 5 years. I’ve had the odd fuck, but nothing serious. I’m not sure how to get back into the dating game and would really appreciate your advice!

Thanks for the email. This is really geeky but I am a big fan of dating online… Is doesn’t have to be a paid dating site, social networking sites like Facebook are pretty awesome for finding people to love, fuck and buy you drinks! I think you need to not think of dating as a ‘big thing’, just think of it as an extension to flirting!

Don’t put all your eggs into one basket either, spread your love a little! That doesn’t mean you have to fuck around behind peoples backs, but meet lots of people and give yourself plenty of options. Don’t fall into the trap of falling for the first person you find just because you have been off the dating circuit for a while!

I hope that helps! If you want any sex tips of sex advice, email me via our contact page!

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

Sex Advice time… Today’s email comes from Shona:

Hi Allan. I am Shona, 21 and I come from a conservative Indian family. But I’m really fascinated by sex and the erotic dimension of it. I enjoy visiting Redtube, it is an awesome site. I haven’t yet experienced sex with someone. Largely because I want it to be passionate so I prefer to wait for the right one and also when I’m ready.

There’s however one thing that bothers me which I want to talk about. I’m hairy, I mean really hairy (over my legs, belly, arms, etc). This issue used to nag me all through my teens. But now I don’t really care much as it has decreased a bit. Still I often wonder if I’ll get someone who’ll make passionate love to me without bothering about my hairiness. Or if it’s a problem, if I will have to remove it all.

I guess I would like to be accepted as I am or something like that. And I guess it’s high time I start dating as I used to avoid these issues in my teens. I would like to get some tips from you on how to start dating and be confident about having sex and all, even if I’m hairy.

Thanks Shona for your honest email! It’s a myth that guys are the only sex to have a hairy body. I’ve been with girls that have had a lot of hair in other places than their head or pussy and it has not really been a problem. Having more hair on your body can be because of where you come from in the world and your genes. From reading your great email I would say that you seem happy with yourself, so don’t even consider changing!

You are right about dating, you need to get yourself out there and meet some guys because you will find someone who is attracted to you for who you are and how you look as a total package. Whether you go for someone Indian or anyone else, I bet you find someone who loves your body as it is and really wants to get passionate with you because of it.

My sex advice to you is don’t remove all your hair… do what you feel is right… and get out there and look for someone who fits into your life. When it comes to dating, make sure you are yourself… Online is a great place to to meet people, it’s one of the most common ways nowadays but just make sure you are safe when you meet someone for the first time in the flesh.

With the invention of sites like facebook, the chances are that you already have friends that you could make something more than just friendship out of!  I’m sure if you put yourself out there you will start getting attention (That’s if they don’t find you first). When you find someone, wait until the special moment and it feels right to ‘do the do’. Being confident is not something that comes easy, but you really just have to play the game and wait… when the right person comes along… you will open up sexually!

If you need any sex tips or sex advice from Agony Allan, email via our contact form.

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

Sexy Poll Results time is here! Each week we do a little poll on something filthy and dirty… you have to just choose an option! It’s pretty simple! To take part in this weeks Poll about which place has the best girls… click in the top right hand corner (ish)!

So the question I asked last week was ‘You are on a first date… What are your rules?’… I.e Do you intend to get to know someone better in the mind… maybe a kiss or do you go out with the goal to fuck them?… So here we go:

You are on a first date… What are your rules?:

I fuck on a first date! 47%

I do usually kiss 26%

I don’t kiss 13%

I grope and kiss 8%

I get a blowjob on a first date… 6%

Thank you for your honesty… I would go out with the intention to fuck on the first date… but it’s always just been a kiss, oh and there was a blowjob once or twice. I never get to fuck on the first date, but I would if the opportunity presented itself. At the end of the day, people date because they want to find a partner… which includes someone to fuck, so why wait? Might as well jump straight in and see if the sex is good!

Your thoughts?

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

I always hated dating, to be honest, I’ve never really done much of it… why? Because dating always seems like so much hard work and a lot of effort trying to say the right things. Every now and then you put a tiny lie in there to sound more exciting, and BOOM… you have to keep that one going for the next 60 years! My wife still thinks I’m an airplane pilot; she drops me off at the airport everyday, that’s why I am sat in Starbucks writing this blog!

This dating game is good though, your advisor ‘Sarge’ will guide you through dating a couple of cyber women, and then you can use this knowledge in the real word to pick up some pussy! Some times I think it might just be easier to fuck computers. Anyway, enjoy this dating game.

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!