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Time for some more Agony Allan sex tips and sex advice. If you need help, email me via my contact form. Here is today’s message.

Allan,

Whenever my wife and I have sex I can barely last a minute before I cum. I am able to last much longer when I masturbate. Is this the definition of premature ejaculation? Is it the friction of being inside of her that causes me to finish so quickly?

I’ve tried desensitizing creams in the past to no avail. My doctor prescribed Prozac in the hopes one of its side effects would help. I’ve read about a technique where we try getting me close to climax and then placing pressure at the head of my penis as a means to train myself. What can I do? Can a urologist help? Will Viagra help?

Thanks,

Hey, thanks for the honest email. I believe that a lot of men go through this at some point in their life, me included. It still happens to me now… 9 out of 10 times I will cum within two minutes but I can jerk off for ages. I put it down to over excitement and yeah, pussy feels better than your hand!

You are already seeing a doctor so persist with this and ask them about a urologist. I personally wouldn’t recommend Viagra as it is more for erectile dysfunction (when you cannot get a boner). If you take Viagra, you may still cum quick, but you will still be hard after.

I would suggest that you change your sex life around this… Some guys just cum quick, so find other things that you can do in bed with your wife that perhaps get her off before you fuck her. It’s the old trick of sorting the woman out before you deal with yourself. Also, once you have blown your load, have sex again…. keep going… Just because you have cum quick, it doesn’t mean that you cannot wait for a few minutes and start again. The chances are you will last longer the second time.

I hope that help,

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host

Lets get straight down to another Agony Allan email, someone else is after some sex tips and sex advice.

Hey Allan,

This blog is awesome! I am a virgin and whenever I try to have sex with my partner I either lose my boner or cum as I enter… I tried masturbating but my wanks can’t pass three mins no matter how hard I try… I’m scared shitless. Also my penis has a downward curve. Advice pleeeeeeez!!!!!!
Love da site btw.

I guess that you are young because you are a virgin… I maybe wrong! I had the exact same problem when I used to have sex as a 18 year old…. I was so excited and would enter and then just cum, premature ejaculation is very common when young. I have some good sex tips for you though… When wanking, bring yourself right to the point of cuming, then let your hands go and don’t touch your dick! Give it ten seconds, then try it again… DON’T CUM! Do this routine until your balls just can’t last any longer. This is good training for the bedroom too, when you start to last a little longer than just entering.

My other sex tip is… Cum before sex… get a BJ… wank… do anything you can… then you should last longer in bed as your balls are not as full!

As for the not getting hard, you are just nervous. It will pass! And my dick curves like a banana, dont worry about it and take a look here, dicks are not always straight! Especially if you are a gay dude! HA HA! I’m so funny!

If you need sex tips or sex advice, contact me via my contact form… Male or Female… I want to hear from you all!

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

Let’s do another Agony Allan then, what is better than a bit of sex advice to end the week? A blow-job, but I don’t have one of them right now!

Today’s email is as follows:

Hey Allan!

Hope you had a kickass new year! So yeah onto my problem… I used to be able to hold out during sex for more than 10 min when I had my ex gf. But as you can see, we broke up.

When I went through my mourning period I found this website and I kinda got hooked. Not too bad though, I don’t think I have wanked more than 2 times in a day. But anyhow, when I got back on that horse and went to fuck another chick, I shot my load in less than 3 minutes!! I’m fucking scared that I might not have my edge back. Is my habit of wanking screwed up my duration? Is it just nerves? How can I get back my old self back?

Please make this anonymous. Cheers!

Thanks for the email, anyone who emails me for sex tips or sex advice can be anonymous, just tell me! Okay, so premature ejection is your issue to give it a big funky title. As aways, if you are really concerned about something, go and see a doctor.

Here is what I think… Wanking isn’t going to make you cum faster in bed! If anything, empyting your ballsack will make you last longer. But make sure your wanks have some length to them, train your body to last! I think the issue is purely excitment and nerves. When you are with someone new, you are seeing them naked for the first time… it’s exciting… it’s nerve wrecking and a really common thing! My advice, after cumming in 3 mins… fuck her again. After a while the nerves will go and you will be back to 10 minutes sessions! Trust me!

If you want sex tips or sex advice, Email me via my contact form!

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

Agony Allan Time… as you can see from the photo, I know what I am talking about when it comes to Sex Advice, these two girls didn’t even know each other until I walked into the room!

It’s another ‘Dick Special’… But this time it’s a different story! Big dick… but premature ejaculation! Booooo!

Hi Allan..,

This is Gagan here from India.. Well the size of my penis is large but I discharge early… My age is 19 right now but I don’t know what to do. I’m scared to fuck any girl, only 1 question comes in my mind, that I would be able to satisfied her or not… please let me know how can I control myself..

Dude, it’s easy for me to understand this and give good sex tips and sex advice because I had the same problem with premature ejaculation until I met my wife! I’ll get really personal and tell you about my sex life… why not? I have always came really early with every girl, unless I am drunk (I don’t drink anymore). My wife and I have lots of sex, but I still used to cum within minutes or less, especially because she has a great body… I’m bound to say that, but you just ask the guys in our office… For an ugly dude, I got lucky!! So sex advice, I solved it! I now last for over 5 mins… and this is what I learnt in what I like to call “Allan Lakes seven steps to stopping Premature Ejaculation”:
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