Time for some more Agony Allan sex tips and sex advice. If you need help, email me via my contact form. Here is today’s message.
Whenever my wife and I have sex I can barely last a minute before I cum. I am able to last much longer when I masturbate. Is this the definition of premature ejaculation? Is it the friction of being inside of her that causes me to finish so quickly?
I’ve tried desensitizing creams in the past to no avail. My doctor prescribed Prozac in the hopes one of its side effects would help. I’ve read about a technique where we try getting me close to climax and then placing pressure at the head of my penis as a means to train myself. What can I do? Can a urologist help? Will Viagra help?
Hey, thanks for the honest email. I believe that a lot of men go through this at some point in their life, me included. It still happens to me now… 9 out of 10 times I will cum within two minutes but I can jerk off for ages. I put it down to over excitement and yeah, pussy feels better than your hand!
You are already seeing a doctor so persist with this and ask them about a urologist. I personally wouldn’t recommend Viagra as it is more for erectile dysfunction (when you cannot get a boner). If you take Viagra, you may still cum quick, but you will still be hard after.
I would suggest that you change your sex life around this… Some guys just cum quick, so find other things that you can do in bed with your wife that perhaps get her off before you fuck her. It’s the old trick of sorting the woman out before you deal with yourself. Also, once you have blown your load, have sex again…. keep going… Just because you have cum quick, it doesn’t mean that you cannot wait for a few minutes and start again. The chances are you will last longer the second time.
I hope that help,
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