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I’ve been writing Agony Allan’s on the blog for a while, people will email me with their questions asking for sex tips or sex advice and I try to help them. Last week, I posted a question from a guy who has major anxiety with girls but also a high opinion of his looks, you can read the post by clicking here. Just to show you that my advice really isn’t worthless, check out this email I received from the same guy today:

Hey Allan. I’m the guy who wrote you with the anxiety/ego issue. I just wanna thank you for your time and advice. I know if I read my email I’d ignore such a douche. You seem like a really decent, well-grounded guy and I hope I can be even half the man you are someday. I’m actually a humble guy with a serious girl problem, and it meant alot to me that you took the time to care. You made a fan outta me, and if I ever get lucky based on your advice you’ll get some mail.

Agony Allan is working so well that my future responses will be in video form! And you will be able to check them out on my new RedTube Community page! So please, keep you emails coming in, just use my contact form!

Allan Lake
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Sex advice and Sex tips are my bag! Here is another email from one of you guys asking for help:

Hi Allan. Just found your advice page for the first time, and I’m diggin it. My problem is kinda strange. I don’t want to be conceited, but….. I’m a very attractive 20 year old guy. I hate it. I have problems with anxiety, and sexual tension makes it much worse.

Because of the way I look, I find myself experiencing sexual tension with almost every girl I meet. I don’t get many chances to ignore the tension and just feel uncomfortable around girls. I’m also a virgin. I don’t know if losing the v-card is the problem, or if it’s more complicated than that. (Also, size is definitely not the problem..)

I don’t know how to relax when a girl eyes me down. It’s come to the point where I’ve given up on trying to have sex. How can a lucky guy like me feel so unlucky. Once a girl is interested, I find myself unable to return that interest because anxiety takes hold. Any advice?

Okay, I can imagine a lot of people reading this email might say ‘Fuck off you egoistical bastard’… But that’s not me. I do find it strange that you have anxiety issue but you also hold yourself in such high regard. You could have written the same email to me, but left the ‘I’m so good looking’ part out because it really has no relevance to your problem…. OR DOES IT??

I actually think that the ego you hold is perhaps your problem with the ladies. You are putting yourself on a peddle stool, you are excepting a lot because you think you are giving a lot and the pressure of all of this is giving you anxiety and holding you back… Forget what you look like, I don’t care if you are Brad Pitt… there is no use being Brad Pitt if you can’t fuck Angelina! You need to relax! You get a lot of attention from girls, ignore it for a bit… stop putting so much pressure on yourself and I guarantee you that after you stop thinking about pulling a chick, it will just happen.

When you want something so much, you build it up into a major thing… you have less chance of it happening, you need to want it… release it and just relax as it will happen!

My final words, get that ego in check… a woman doesn’t want to hear about how good looking you are, she wants to hear how great she looks!

Allan Lake
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Sex Advice time from your pal, Agony Allan! Here is today’s email:

Allan,

My girlfriend won’t let me cum in her mouth, she has never taken a load in her mouth from anyone because she is freaked out by the thought of it. All my past girlfriends used to swallow, so I know how good it feels and I want that feeling back.

Hey and thanks for the email. Cumming in a girls mouth is hot, cumming in her mouth and then having her swallow it right down is fucking hot so I totally see your point… But you can’t make her swallow so if its that important to you and she still won’t do it after my advice, leave her. For her own sake, not just yours!

So, my advice… have a talk to her. Tell her that this one thing would really turn you and she only has to try it once, if she doesn’t like it… fine. Sex is all about trying new things, so perhaps try something on her that you are no so sure about also!

Allan Lake
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Hey, Agony Allan time with more sex tips and sex advice for anyone that asks for them! If you need help, email me via my contact form. Today’s email is as follows:

Hello Allan,

I am 21 and I think that I might be addicted to sex, I have to fuck everyday… and if I can’t fuck… I jerk off as much as I can. This can’t be healthy?! I have a girlfriend at the moment and she seems to love sex too, but I am worried that if I continue with this addiction I will start wanting to fuck other chicks, not just her. Help me!

Thanks for the email, well yes… you might be addicted to sex but most guys are at 21! I honestly wouldn’t worry about it, sex addiction becomes a problem when it starts affecting your life or others around you negatively. For example, if you are fucking a different chick each night… every night… that can’t be good for you. It seems you and your girlfriend love having sex, so do it as much as you can!

You are worried about wanting to fuck other chicks, I would cross that bridge if you come to it… If you really feel like you need to fuck other girls, then you clearly shouldn’t be with your girlfriend. Dude, you are worrying too much at the moment, you are young… be free and enjoy your so called sex addiction.

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host!

Time for some more Agony Allan sex tips and sex advice. If you need help, email me via my contact form. Here is today’s message.

Allan,

Whenever my wife and I have sex I can barely last a minute before I cum. I am able to last much longer when I masturbate. Is this the definition of premature ejaculation? Is it the friction of being inside of her that causes me to finish so quickly?

I’ve tried desensitizing creams in the past to no avail. My doctor prescribed Prozac in the hopes one of its side effects would help. I’ve read about a technique where we try getting me close to climax and then placing pressure at the head of my penis as a means to train myself. What can I do? Can a urologist help? Will Viagra help?

Thanks,

Hey, thanks for the honest email. I believe that a lot of men go through this at some point in their life, me included. It still happens to me now… 9 out of 10 times I will cum within two minutes but I can jerk off for ages. I put it down to over excitement and yeah, pussy feels better than your hand!

You are already seeing a doctor so persist with this and ask them about a urologist. I personally wouldn’t recommend Viagra as it is more for erectile dysfunction (when you cannot get a boner). If you take Viagra, you may still cum quick, but you will still be hard after.

I would suggest that you change your sex life around this… Some guys just cum quick, so find other things that you can do in bed with your wife that perhaps get her off before you fuck her. It’s the old trick of sorting the woman out before you deal with yourself. Also, once you have blown your load, have sex again…. keep going… Just because you have cum quick, it doesn’t mean that you cannot wait for a few minutes and start again. The chances are you will last longer the second time.

I hope that help,

Allan Lake
Your RedTube Blog Host