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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – He hates my fetish

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RedTubes Allan LakeAgony Allan time:

Allan,

My fetish in bed is biting my husbands nipples but he recently came clean and told me that he hates it. I feel bad because I’ve done it for such a long time and he pushed me away the other day.. Just confused, what should I do now?

Hey, thanks for the email! Don’t feel bad, if he didn’t tell you and just went along with it, you can’t be expected to know. So he doesn’t like his nipple being bit, I understand that… I don’t like being bit, but my wife just does it anyway… mainly because I don’t like it, but it’s fine because that usually leads into me spanking her ass for being naughty.

Seriously though, try something else! There are plenty of fetishes out there, get him to bite your nipples… maybe causing pain in some other ways… When I say pain, I mean it in the nicest way! Have you thought about trying some sort of foot fetish?

If you need sex tips or sex advice, email me via my Contact Form.

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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – Should I try Anal Sex?

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RedTubes Allan LakeA few times a week, I try to answer some of the questions I get asking for Sex Tips or Sex Advice. If you ever need help, just shoot me over an email using my Contact Form.

Here is today’s message:

Hi Allan,

I am just wondering if you think I should try anal with my boyfriend. He seems up for it, I have tried sticking sex toys in my ass before and I didn’t like it very much but I have the urge to try it with my mans dick. Advice pls!

Hey, nice email. My theory in life is… if you are curious about something, it’s not going to do you any harm trying it once… if it doesn’t work out then just leave it and put it down to an ‘experience’.

So yes, try it… you should always try new things. You might love it! You might hate it… But at least you can say that you have done it! My only advice, use lots of lube.

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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – I don’t want sex! Help me!

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RedTubes Allan LakeHere is another question for Agony Allan. If you need sex tips, sex advice or any help, send me an email via my contact form:

Dear Allan,

I am a 23 year old male and I’ve totally lost interest in sex! I know this sounds strange and although I still jerk off to RedTube… I just can’t be bothered having sex with my girlfriend. She is hot and is clearly thinking that I am cheating on her or something, but I am not… I just have no sex drive. Help!

Thanks for the email, it sounds to me like you have problems with your libido, but there are ways that you can get your mojo back! Firstly you should not look at sex like a task that has to be done, it’s a beautiful thing that you should do when you feel like it, so let’s get you feeling like it again!

Things like stress, not eating well and general health are all things that will keep your sex drive down so make sure you are relaxed and healthy… Healthy body, healthy sex life.

My advice to you then is… CHANGE SOMETHING… Go into the bedroom looking to try something different… do something that is really different for you both. Perhaps you concentrate on getting your girl off and forget about your own needs, that turns me on when my sex drive is low. You might speak to her before and get her to try something different.

We all get a bit lazy sometimes, even in bed… and things become boring and stale… But small changes in the way you do things can bring you back into the game! Let me know how it goes.

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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – I cannot stay hard… Help me!

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RedTubes Allan LakeIf you need sex tips or sex advice, speak to me! I can always help you! Send me a message via my Contact Form. This is my latest email:

Hey Allan.

I’m an 18 year old guy who has a girlfriend. We’ve been having intercourse since Jan, but lately I’m not capable of maintaining an erection. When we start the foreplay, I’m hard as a rock, but as soon as the condom appears, my penis goes way off. What can I do?

Thanks for the message. Your problem I think might just be nerves… I’ve had this issue before, especially when I was younger… You are all excited.. but when it comes down to business, putting the condom on… your nerves get the better of you and your dick goes down.

There is only one way to cure this and that is to chill out! Don’t make a big deal out of putting the condom on, you don’t need to stop what you are doing, maybe your girlfriend can slide it on? The touch of a woman’s hand will keep you hard.

This isn’t a problem that you should worry about, the fact is… you get hard to begin with! That’s a good start!

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Sex Advice by Agony Allan – How do I break up with my girl?

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RedTubes Allan LakeSex Advice from Agony Allan is free! Just shoot me an email and I will do my best to respond… You can contact me using my contact form. Here is today’s message:

Hey Allan,

I have been with a girl for 2 years now, to be honest… I just don’t want to be with her anymore. I don’t feel its going anywhere. But I know she feels the opposite, so what should I do? I want to break up with her, but I know that’s just mean. Help me!

A wise man once said to me ‘Relationships never end nicely’… and it’s true… You are never going to be able to end a relationship with everyone feeling happy as Larry… When feelings and emotions are involved, there will always be tears. But you should still end it, don’t be a pussy and wait for her to finish things… Be a man, sit her down and tell her face to face that you feel it’s not going anywhere and you want to split up.

Don’t give her any false hope, but be nice about it! It’s all about being honest but with control, there is going to be damage… your job is to limit it! I hope that helps!

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