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Today’s email asking Agony Allan for sex advice is about masturbation.

Hi Allan,

I have a problem regarding masturbation. My boyfriend wanted to see me masturbating and squirting. I can do both, but when he’s watching I get self conscious, even when he says that he will turn around and to call him if i’m cuming.

Can you give me some advice what to do? How can I relax when masturbating and squirting in front of my boyfriend?

Thanks for the message, I totally understand that you feel self conscious when playing with yourself in-front of your boyfriend. We usally masturbate alone so when someone else is watching, things like squirting are not easy! I have a suggestion for you… Why don’t you start of with small steps… Film yourself squirting and send it to him whilst you are not around each other!

Ask him to do the same! Both of you share videos, only with each other… and then once you realised that he’s already seen you cum… you will feel less self conscious and more like doing it for real in-front of him! I hope my sex advice and sex tips work out for you!

If you would like any sex advice, email me via my contact form!

Allan Lake
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Let’s do another Agony Allan, this is today’s email:

Hi Allan,

Please help me. I’m going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I was wondering what is the best contraceptive method to use? I was thinking about using the pills but are they really safe?

Congratulations for being such a great advisor, hope you can help me.

Best Regards
Candy

Hi Candy, thanks for the message. It is a great question that you ask today and well done for actually taking an interest in safe sex! I may sound like a bore, but it’s so important that you protect yourself and your partner.

My advice would be to start the contraception pill by visiting your doctor, but for the first few months I would also use condoms at the same time and I will explain why!

The pill works like this, it fools your body into thinking that you are already pregnant so then you cannot conceive, but it’s really important to note that taking the pill will not stop you from catching sexually transmitted infections and diseases. I don’t care how long you’ve been with your man, both of you should go to your local clinic and get checked out before he takes the rubber off.

Once you’ve done that and you’ve also been taking the pill for a while, you are good to leave the condoms at the door and go bareback!

Sex advice and sex tips are always on hand, just email me via my contact form. Click on Allan Lake.

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Time for another piece of sex advice from Agony Allan! If you need sex tips or sex advice from me, email via my contact form! This is todays email:

Hi Allan, I have a question that goes through my mind every time I have sex with my girlfriend…

HOW DO I MAKE MY GIRL SQUIRT!!??

I’ve been told that there are some things you can do, but I never heard exactly what… It’s possible as far as I know… that every girl can squirt?

Please help me out here and make my day

I don’t think every girl can squirt but I can tell you that a lot can. I somehow have the magical touch with squirting, so here are some tips that I have picked up.

Don’t try to make her squirt straight away, take your time! You want to build up massive amounts of anticipation. Tease her!! Once she’s warmed up, enter her with one finger and feel all the way around the walls of her pussy watching how she reacts to each move you make.

Now the smooth talking comes in, tell her how great she feels and that she is making you want to cum just by touching her. Then begin to touch her G spot using a ‘come here’ motion. Vary it up between long and short strokes. The G Spot will begin to swell and balloon out as she gets closer and closer to cuming.

She will begin to feel a sensation similar to her needing to piss. It isn’t piss though, it’s something much nicer! Encourage her to let it go! Some girls can squirt a lot of cum, others need a bit of practice, but the whole basis of making someone squirt relies on you teasing and building up to it! Slow and steady wins the race!

If you need a more visual aid, check our instructional video How to give women squirting orgasms!

Allan Lake
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Let’s do another Agony Allan then, what is better than a bit of sex advice to end the week? A blow-job, but I don’t have one of them right now!

Today’s email is as follows:

Hey Allan!

Hope you had a kickass new year! So yeah onto my problem… I used to be able to hold out during sex for more than 10 min when I had my ex gf. But as you can see, we broke up.

When I went through my mourning period I found this website and I kinda got hooked. Not too bad though, I don’t think I have wanked more than 2 times in a day. But anyhow, when I got back on that horse and went to fuck another chick, I shot my load in less than 3 minutes!! I’m fucking scared that I might not have my edge back. Is my habit of wanking screwed up my duration? Is it just nerves? How can I get back my old self back?

Please make this anonymous. Cheers!

Thanks for the email, anyone who emails me for sex tips or sex advice can be anonymous, just tell me! Okay, so premature ejection is your issue to give it a big funky title. As aways, if you are really concerned about something, go and see a doctor.

Here is what I think… Wanking isn’t going to make you cum faster in bed! If anything, empyting your ballsack will make you last longer. But make sure your wanks have some length to them, train your body to last! I think the issue is purely excitment and nerves. When you are with someone new, you are seeing them naked for the first time… it’s exciting… it’s nerve wrecking and a really common thing! My advice, after cumming in 3 mins… fuck her again. After a while the nerves will go and you will be back to 10 minutes sessions! Trust me!

If you want sex tips or sex advice, Email me via my contact form!

Allan Lake
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It’s time for another Agony Allan, if you have a question or need any sex tips or advice… email me via my contact form! Here is todays email:

Hello Allan. It’s really nice to go through your blog and find out many suggestions. My problem is my dick doesn’t get hard enough to do the main course. I can get hard just before sex, but I always go soft during. I am only 27. Pls help me.

This is a problem that I think a lot of men have had at some point in their life and it can be solved! The most common cause of ‘floppy dick syndrom’ is stress, you need to make sure that you feel comfortable before sex… don’t think about what you are about to do, have some fun with foreplay and if sex happens, don’t think or worry about it too much.

If that fails, then go see your doctor. He might be able to give you something that will keep you hard. Erectile Dysfunction is a really common problem in guys of all ages and it’s always best to get a professional opinion.

If you need any sex advice, you know where I am.

Allan Lake
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